I'm a female RVer. I don't camp solo...the hubby and kids always come along, but I do often drive to the campground and set up and hubby joins after he gets off work. He owns his own business and it's farming related so it can be hard during busy seasons for him to get away, so I have learned to do most things myself.
I love camping, my husband tolerates it. He camps to keep me happy, so I try to not make things more difficult (i.e,. unenjoyable) for him by sticking him with all the maintenance work. I've been able to fix many issues by searching here and google. I've also found many good ideas and tips here. If I have an issue camping, I usually try here and google before I dig out the owner's manuals.
As far as the snarkiness (snarkyness?)I find it on all boards I frequent. I'm also a horse lover and it's rampant on the horse forums too. Some people just don't realize it's a lot more fun to camp, fish and ride horses than to sit behind a monitor and fire off condescending replies. ;) Their loss