Not sure if you’re complaining or bragging. 2 loads of laundry assuming dry too is a waste of battery usage… crank your generator. Your refrigerator #s are way off, even with the ice maker on. My 21 Whirlpool draws 8 amps measured before the inverter and only runs 40% of the time… confirmed with a KW meter at 1.3KW/day with the ice maker off.
When using a high amp item for any length of time, crank the generator and turn the ice maker on to harvest the ice. With no one near you, what’s with not running the generator?