That is a tough call. You would be slightly more uncomfortable on the couple of trips south each summer, but the humidity down there is really low, so the heat is not to bad once you are used to 80F and 85RH. 105F and 10 RH is nothing!
I would say go with a energy efficient 13,500 Btu unit. This is because if you are camping in 30 amp sites, you will be able to run the A/C all day, and not need to stop it to use the 12.5 amp microwave or 12.5 amp coffee maker, or 10 amp toaster.
Running a 15,000 Btu 14 amp A/C you might need to stop the compressor long enough to make coffee, run the microwave, or cook breakfast on a 1,100 watt hot plate.
But with early morning hours, the amperage on the compressor will be less anyway.
I have a 13,500 Btu and a 30' Bounder with decent insulation, dual pane windows. I like the sound absorption of the dual pane windows, and it is quieter inside while driving than the older RV we had. Also less heat gain in the summer, less condensation on the windows, heat loss in the winter.
When I lived in Mesa AZ one summer, it was tollerable to come home to a 85F RV and take a shower. I did not need to heat the water, as the hose was sitting in the shade on 100F asphalt, and taking a 'cold' shower was next to impossible with ground water coming out at 80F and then getting warm on the ground under the RV!
Good luck,
Fred.