I don't think you are going to easily find an inverter with a remote on/off that isn't good quality.
I'm not a big believer in highend inverters, but this guy on youtube is pretty good reviewer and he demonstrates how to wire a remote. Fast forward to about 8 minutes.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XoeU5iJnbwYI've found that I use my small inverter most of the time for tv etc since it just requires flipping a switch instead of changing my fridge to gas, unplugging my battery charger, and plugging my shore power into the big inverter.
