jmtandem wrote:
For a newbie, I would go with Equalizer. Lots of comments and arguments on the other brands (too expensive, the ONLY one to buy, Anderson is too new and/or can't move the weight enough, etc.). Everyone seems to agree that the Equalizer 4-point hitch is a very good, reasonably priced hitch that you can use for years with no issues.
The OP asked about the best, money is no option, hitch. Had the OP asked what would be a good hitch to get started in RVing the answers might all be different and more along the lines of what you responded to. As far as the Equalizer hitch goes, I had one (1200/12000) and unimpressed with it. Here is the problem, the OP purchases an entry level 'dealer throws it in to make a sale hitch', like the Equalizer, and then after a few tows the OP wants a better hitch. He now has purchased two hitches and spent even more money than if just starting with the proven premium hitch (PullRite, Hensely or ProPride), and started out right with a lifetime hitch.
Had the OP asked about a good entry level hitch, I would have suggested the Blue OX or Reese dual cam. I have never seen the Anderson hitch so maybe it is also a good entry level hitch.
The OP also mentioned "easy to use". I don't think the Hensley and it's ilk would fit that bill. I don't even think it would work for my camping style. Though I have no experience with them, I've read enough to feel informed. I often have to hitch and unhitch at sharp angles and on unlevel ground. The Equal-I-zer handles this with ease.