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FraserCA
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Apr 17, 2014

Complete Newbie Seeking Guidance

Hello everyone. I'm delighted to have found this forum and look forward to chatting with all of you. In a nutshell, here's my story (with a few questions at the end).

I'm 35, married, live in Northern California (wine country) and have two very young children. My son is 2 yrs 9 months, and my daughter is all of 1 month old.

I've always loved road trips, but for whatever reason the idea of vacationing via some kind of RV never occurred to me until about a week ago. Every night on my long commute home (a commute I've been doing for six years), I pass by a giant Camping World RV center that's right off the interstate. I caught myself looking at all the motor homes neatly lined up on the lot and then it sort of just slapped me in the face that something like that might be a perfect thing for my family.

The neat thing about living where we do is that we're just about 3 hours away from a lot of really cool, different places: 3 hours to Yellowstone, 3 hours to Lake Tahoe, 2 hours to the Pacific Ocean, 3 hours to the Monterey peninsula, 3 hours to the coastal Redwoods, 4 hours to the Mount Shasta/Lassen area. With some kind of RV rig, there would be a ton of options for long weekend getaways.

However, with a newborn I don't think RV'ing is right around the corner. But I want to start doing some serious research now to get a plan in place (save up for the right model, etc).

Also, another reason I want to start thinking about it now as opposed to later is that we're probably going to trade in at least one of our cars in the next 3 to 6 months. Currently we have an '09 Honda CR-V and my old '06 Civic which I use just for commuting. Obviously neither of these are good options for towing. Now that we have 2 kids we're looking at swapping the CR-V for something larger. I'm kind of leaning toward a minivan (Sienna or Odyssey) but may also look at larger SUVs (Pilot, Highlander). I'd like the next car to be one that's fit to tow the trailer.

With all that unnecessary backstory out of the way, here are a few things I'm wondering:

1) I'm leaning toward travel trailers rather than RVs primarily because of the cost factor. RVs are so much more and it seems like overkill since we won't be using it full time. Is that reasonable logic or should I open myself up to something other than a travel trailer?

2) CARS - How do the Siennas and Odysseys of the world do towing a trailer? Are there other cars I should consider?

3) Which brands and models are good intro units? I'd want something on the smaller side. It wouldn't necessarily need to comfortably sleep 4 adults. My guess is we'll end up using the car, the travel trailer, and a tent collectively to set up a traveling home.

4) What's the scoop on Aliners? I see a lot of them around the neighborhoods where we live.

5) What should I be reading up on and studying so that I can familiarize myself with how to own and operate a travel trailer? I've never used a tow hitch or anything like that before, and although I'm fairly handy around the house I don't know much about cars.

I really appreciate any information that anyone shares. Thanks!!!
  • Chris - First off - WELCOME to the forum. :)

    You have raised a lot of very good questions and your timing in terms of when you expect to buy a vehicle that is capable of pulling some sort of RV is perfect. Your information is NOT unnecessary in the least. As a matter of fact many posters on this forum come on here, post their problem with not enough background and as a result so much time is wasted getting the background after the fact and after some folk have wasted a lot of their good time giving help only tp find out they were barking up the "wrong" tree.

    That said I don't believe you mentioned whether or not you had tent camped before and what your feelings were on that in terms of noise, dealing with inclement weather, etc.

    I am sure there are many here who were in a situation such as yours at one time - I certainly was and have gone though 2 RVs prior to my current one. That said I have never camped with a baby but I am sure there are lots of folks who have done it. Besides, in a year the baby would be a toddler and a completely different "challenge" (unless you get another one in the meantime).

    I will have a look at some of the responses for now to see if anyone actually answers your questions. There will be lots of responses of so there will be lots of reading to do to sift the nuggets out.

    That said I have a feeling that you should be looking at a pop-up given the tow vehicles you seem to be considering at this point. ;)
  • 1: If you want to tow, going with a minivan or van will severely limit your choices. A pickup truck will give you the ability to get a decent hard-sided trailer. I'd consider a used 3/4 or one ton with a crew cab or extended cab. If length is a concern, a half-ton might do the job, although you will be limited in choices for towables for a family of four, and towing up hills/mountains may be an issue.

    2: A-liners are workable, but are generally not self-contained, and might be cramped. (They don't have the large beds that slide out like the tent campers... but they can be set up in just a few seconds, so there are good and bad about them.) With kids, you want as little work setting up at a campsite as possible.

    3: Given a choice between a travel trailer or a motorhome (perhaps using the CR-V or the Civic as a toad, pulled behind the RV), I'd go with the motorhome. There is far less setup, and you can keep watch on the kids a lot easier. Plus, stopping to change a diaper or feed a kid is a lot easier -- just pull to the side of the road. It will be more expensive than a trailer, but if used fairly often, it might be worth it. Another advantage of a motorhome/toad combination is that you have the fuel economy of the littler Honda when not on the road and not needing a thirsty V8 or V6 for a daily driver.

    I wouldn't say any choice is better than the other, as everyone has different needs and I'm putting some idea out, but I'd be presumptuous if I stated had the perfect solution for the OP. Money is a big factor. Motorhomes are more expensive than trailers, and they are another engine/drivetrain to register/inspect/maintain. However, they can make life a lot easier.
  • Loved northern California, lived there for 4 years.

    As vet man said, look for a pickup truck or large SUV. I started with the one in my signature (though I'd get a lighter trailer or a bigger truck if I were starting now - even with the propride hitch I still wish I had a bigger truck. I would start with a 1/2 a ton or 3/4 ton pickup now).

    However, I did not do what my friends did: they started smaller and changed trailers 2x before settling down on a ~26 box.

    You can start small now though and change it later, it's up to you. Still, get a good TV first.

    ETA: Funny, when you said Yellowstone I actually thought that I read Yosemite. It's a common mistake when you're there :)
  • I personally would not tow any high walled trailer with anything you listed - "(Sienna or Odyssey)...(Pilot, Highlander)". Durango Hemi, Grand Cherokee Hemi or diesel, Euro SUVs with diesels like Touareg, X5, ML. And unless you wnat a diesle, then I'd go for a full sized half ton. They offer far more performance and towing capability (and not specifically tow rating) than make towing pleasant.
  • I have camped in everything from a tent to a Motor Home at present. I would look for a new or used pick-up truck, with 4 doors. It would open up your camping possibilities to a wide range of travel trailers and even fifth wheels. Those vans that you mentioned will limit you to only a few travel trailers and no fifth wheels. Start looking now, to gain ideas and info, here is a good start.
  • 3 hours to Yellowstone,


    Interesting! How fast do you drive? You must have the fastest Sienna or Odyssey made. Or, perhaps you are on the wrong forum. This is an RV forum, not a LearJet forum.

    In your narrative you referred to Camping World; do a search and read everything you can on these forums about Camping World before you purchase anything from them.