MargaretB wrote:
kodiakcanuck wrote:
What size engine for the Toyota? 4.7 or 5.7 V8?  You can find the towing capacity online...
Regardless, yes you are fine.  Worrying about an additional 50 or 60 pounds or the weight of each individual item seems ridiculous to me...You aren't riding the space shuttle and calculating re-entry :R
Just go enjoy your trailer...:h
My sentiments exactly.
You may find out that towing above your rated weights is not "ridiculous". 
No one is going to be at your side when you load up to go camping and advising you not to overload. It may be that your vehicle can handle more weight than what's advised by the mfg. It also may be that the weight ratings are carefully thought out and that exceeding them causes a failure of components in the vehicle. I try to keep weights under those ratings since I'm not an automotive engineer.
One thing we see on this Forum is folks buying a trailer that is a mismatch for the vehicle. Without knowing the weight ratings, they buy a TT and then later are posting "Why is towing my small trailer so stressful" or something similar. Many of these folks are either forced to downsize their  trailer or, usually, upgrading their vehicle to something larger that will handle the weights. Some just continue along and suffer the consequences of the mismatch. In any of the above situations, the outcome isn't good. 
I guess it boils down to either believing why the weight ratings are important or adhering to the new mantra of convenience, "It should be OK".