Just read the whole thread. FWIW, I just (3 1/2 months ago) traded my 2011 Tundra for my current truck, 2014 Ram 3500 Megacab Diesel. I know you are not looking for a diesel, but for what you are looking to spend on a 6.4 Hemi in NJ, you may be able to get a diesel in NC. If you haven't yet, try Kernersville Dodge, That where I got mine from. Long story short, they took my trade for $500 more than anyone in NJ, delivered the new truck to me on a flat bed free of charge and took the trade on the same flat bed.
I got a great deal on my truck, dealers in NJ would not even touch it, they all said it was impossible or a bait and switch...
PM me is yu need/want more info.
The same tradesman you are looking for they have for $34K, plus, they have A LOT of '14 they need to get rid off. They just sold a truck to someone on the cummins forum for $14.5K off sticker. Worth the try.
EDIT: I can't find a way to edit my profile. I am in Union NJ