Page 17 of this has a table of tire wear patterns which indicates a bent axle or overloading:
Lippert manual Unless you have towed for 2 years with under-inflated tires, it sounds like bent axles. It could be from hitting potholes and craters in the roads, but could be frame and suspension issues.
I would try some googling as it looks like frame issues could be a known problem with V-Cross units. Have you asked or searched on the FR forum?
I think these V-nose TTs are one of the ones out there that have the I-beams that are made from 3 pieces of 1/8" sheet steel welded together to look like a regular forged I-beam. If you have one of these, they have extreme flex in them which could be a contributing factor. With excessive flex, the axles can bend too easily. Also, if the spring hangers are the taller 6" ones and the axles are under-slung, that increases the lateral (sideways) leverage force imposed onto the axles. If the axles are "allowed" to flex too much, you won't have to hit very big potholes to bend axles.
If you have one of the above frames, check and see if all the spring hangers are perfectly vertical (sitting on level ground). I have seen them bent out of vertical over 1/2". Look at the lower flange of the I-beam where the spring hangers are attached and see if the flange is distorted. You may need a straightedge to see it. Look for cracks in the vertical web of the I-beams right above the spring hangers. Cracks can develop there but it may be early yet in 2 years to show up.
Does the frame have gussets or other strengthening pieces welded on the I-beams near the spring hangers? Gussets help to reduce frame flex. Sometimes there is square tubing welded to the underside of the frame to help stiffen it up.
I you have something you can use as a straightedge around 5-6' like a decent 2x4, see if the axles are flat. You could also have bent spindles but it sounds more like bent axles. Axle tubes are paper thin and can be easily damaged. They are often rated at the borderline of the weight they carry.
This Lippert LIP Sheet has some helpful info.:
LIP Sheet 0135This LIP Sheet shows how to measure a frame:
http://www.lci1.com/images/support/lipsheet/0088.pdfThis LIP Sheet shows tolerances in frame/suspension measurements:
http://www.lci1.com/images/support/lipsheet/0151.pdfI highly recommend that you go to a frame and axle shop that has experience with towable RVs. I wouldn't go to a semi shop. The right frame and axle shop will know exactly what to look for in a TT. If you have the fabricated I-beams, they can recommend some re-inforcement methods. They will also look for other things like sub-standard welding. One thing that can be done is to tie the bottom of the spring hangers together at the bottom. Mor/Ryde has an X-member kit or you can make your own. If the inspection shows some significant flaws and poor inherent design, you might try sending a report and pics to Lippert and the factory to see if they change their mind. I wouldn't expect the dealer to be of any help whatsoever. If sending something to the factory, I would try and find someone there higher up and who is empowered to do something.
Installing higher rated axles is a very good idea. The axle sets themselves are not that expensive and you can do it yourself. However, you may have to go from 5-lug to 6-lug wheels which may not be inexpensive. If you have a "regular" forged I-beam frame, just upgrading the axles will help tremendously.
The sad truth about TT (and FW) frames is that there are no industry standards that the frame builder has to comply with. They can build substandard frames and not be accountable to anyone. It is also the TT manufacturer's fault as they are involved in the frame specs. to some degree.
If you can, please follow up on what any findings are and what transpires in the end.