I open grey first to check for 'leaks' then close it
Then open black...run flush or not. Not a every time occurrence
Then a close my downstream added extra valve and open both grey dumps
Greys backflow into black and then I open my downstream extra dump valve and let everything completely drain.
Close off dump valves -----3 tanks and the 1 extra
Add a few gallons back into black and stow hoses/adapters.
Unless using a dump station..then I just dump them all..every valve open and get it done ASAP. Add some water back to black/stow hoses etc and be on my way
But if somewhere that like my sisters place........Macerator. Pump it one tank at a time 75' to cleanout with a 2' rise. Black tank first then both greys and then clean water.