Welcome to the forum. Sorry your introduction has evolved into an electronic food fight.
Your decision to live more purposefully took guts. Technicalities notwithstanding, I think we can all agree that we admire that, right?
This forum contains years of collective wisdom. You will find the answers you seek by utilizing the "Search" function. You will find questions you never thought to ask by skimming the "Active" posts. You may initiate nuclear holocaust by tossing out a new topic. If there's one thing we're not short on around here, it's opinions. I, myself, enjoy lively banter; most of the time, we are successful at maintaining decorum.
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Congratulations & best of luck to you both.
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