I am not familiar with the Curt, but I don't know how you can possibly say that a Reese is "harder to hitch" than a B & W.
Long story, but I borrowed a truck with a B & W hitch to move my trailer in April. There was no difference in ease of hitching vs my Reese Elite. And I honestly felt that the B&W was unnecessarily big - much bulkier than my Reese (comparing a 20k B&W vs my 18k Reese).
After reading all the dribble on here regarding how superior the B&W is, I was honestly disappointed in the B&W. f I was buying a hitch today, I would chose a Reese Elite over the B&W, but that is a personal preference - it is likely you would not go wrong with purchasing either.
I know you LOVE your B&W, but it pretty apparent that you are less than objective in matters related to hitches (as well as other things).