I tried one thing beyond just putting the stabs down, and it helps considerably. One of the things we noticed was a side-to-side wiggle, where the trailer wiggled around the axles as the pivot point. I made a "redneck" device that is simple. It keeps the tongue from moving at all, which limits the rear of the trailer some, too. I don't use this on overnights with DS, but if DW joins us for a whole weekend or longer, I do use it.
If you try this, just don't make the pea-brained mistake I did the last time I used it. Without thinking, obviously, I started cranking up the tongue to prepare for hitching up to come home. I forgot to remove the chains on this device. It stretched 2 S-hooks beyond usability, so I have to replace those before I use it again. :o
