I think arguing over minutia is boring and counter productive and I hope you think the same.
I expressed my experiences and you expressed your opinions, it is that simple.
And yes in this world, there are leaders (contrarian out of the box thinkers, we don't follow the pack and the first to challenge the status quo), there are followers (those that always color within the lines, are obedient to the status quo and never challenge authority), there are do-nothing takers (gimme, gimme, gimme...a liability to society and they "get the honey"*), and there are givers (we help those that cannot help themselves...an asset to society and we usually "sing the blues"*).
* Too Rolling Stoned, Robin Trower