The Ridgeline is a nice vehicle if used as directed; the owner of a floral shop who makes deliveries & might haul 3-4 bags of top soil would be well served by it. Or maybe an avid biker who prefers to toss their bike in back & go without fooling with a rack.
Never really understood all the hate for it on rv.net, as IMO Honda never intended to "trick" anyone into thinking it was a true truck per se. I've always seen it as a competitor to Subarus and wagons, not trucks.
Hands down, the Tundra is your best choice...you'd be giving up little and gaining a lot.