I can sympathize with you. I have a very similar situation with some of the RV's I would like to look at. It sounds like you have a full life as I do. A 4 hour road trip would be better spent going to visit my mother rather than going to an RV dealer. My weekends are already full and along with my full time job 4 hours of free time is precious; there are a whole lot of other things that would come before a "road trip" to the dealer. Family being just one of the items at the top of the list.