I have not stayed at either.
While we were hosts at the Chisos Basin CG in Big Bend (Apr-Aug 2014) we went into Study Butte/ Terlingua weekly.
Both RV parks are simply flat graded gravel/dirt areas with hookups. Rigs are 8-15 feet apart. BJ's is a couple miles from the nearest store (a liquor store), while Big Bend Resort is located behind the motel/ restaurant/ store/ only gas/diesel fuel station in the area.
BJ's is 19 sites - probably 15-12 sites open for visitors the rest for long term residents.
Big Bend RV Resort is about 130 sites.
Their rates are near identical.
BJ's is a 'smaller park' feel.
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Looking over the posts - I though I should mention something about fuel.
Fill up at Marathon, Alpine or Presidio before you head toward the park.
There is one fuel station near Panther Junction Park HQ, one at Rio Grande Village, one at Study Butte/Terlingua (Big Bend RV Resort) and one at Lajitas. You are going to pay a substantial 'boonie tax' - i.e. higher fuel prices for a remote location.
Gas Buddy says today fuel just off I-10 at Fort Stockton is $2.05 gasoline/ $2.40 diesel. Marathon is $2.68 diesel while Alpine is $2.45.
Prices aren't listed for the four stations I mentioned, however my experience is 20-30 cents per gallon higher than Marathon in Study Butte/ Terlingua/ Lajitas and 40-50 cents per gallon higher than Marathon in the park.
Full-Time 2014 - ????
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