We used to camp with people like the OP. We would pull into a campground state or private it did not matter we would pick out a site and set up. Our friends would spend 45 minutes analyzing every aspect of every site then pick a site and set up.
Every one is different and sees things that bother them. I could care less if some are short term, seasonal or long term as long as the place is kept clean. Many people that RV. can barely maneuver in the largest of campgrounds so big rig definition is subjective.
Enjoy the park you end up at for what it is as most will not be there for long.
Pogoil.
