I am looking at a 2008 Monaco La Palma dp with a listed hitch weight of 4000#. I have a 2015 jeep Cherokee which is listed at just under 4000#. Will I be able to tow this behind motor home?
Probably, but only if you drain the fuel tank and put NOTHING by way of "personal effects" in it. Just guessing.
But seriously, I'm guessing that the 4,000 lbs for the Jeep is "dry weight," which does not include driver, fuel, maps, and other stuff. If so, add 7.8 lbs per gallon for the fuel in the tank to that number, plus a hundred or so lbs for those maps and misc junk folks keep in their cars.