Totally agree that you plan your trip around her likes...at least for the first trip.
🙂 Does she like environments such as in state parks or would she like a more upscale place such as a RV park with a pool, activities and the ability to let the water run as much as she likes for her showers since you'd have a sewer connection.
Ease her into this gradually. Pick a place near a town that she'd like to explore. If she has a specific interest such as quilting, birding, concerts, etc. look at the town's calendar of events and see if there's something special going on that she might like to attend. You won't be towing a car to do siteseeing so keep in mind that you're going to have to disconnect the hookups to drive your RV to places. It's not a big deal but it's an added thing to do.
Try out some restaurants nearby so she doesn't have to think about cooking like she does at home.
In choosing a park pre-check it out by using a park review site to see what others say about the park. However, keep in mind when reading these reviews that everyone is different in their likes and dislikes. Weed out the extremes both ways. Once you find a couple parks that you would consider, look at their web site for pictures however, they usually only post the best so that may not help... a flower pot on pansies is not a good representation of the park so keep that in mind. Finally, you could look at the park by using Google Earth and 'fly' over it to get a feel of the park. Just plug in it's address and you'll be right there. You can also view the surrounding area and town.
Try to choose a park where the sites are not close together. Give her breathing room, perhaps a little grass or a tree.
http://www.rvparkreviews.com/If you're retired, go during the week rather than a weekend when it's more hectic in parks...Monday through Wednesday would be good. Try not to travel too far as that can get tiresome. With an RV a good distance would be 200 miles or so.
Remember your objective....you're trying to win her over with this 'camping' thing!
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