Until you weigh your truck with and without the travel trailer fully loaded as if you are going camping you should run at maximum pressure on the truck.
When you have weighed the truck you can then find the TIRE MANUFACTURERS chart that will give you the correct pressure for the tire based upon the weight.
What others run is immaterial to you because the weight is the important factor in determining proper inflation.
Tires inflated to max = no problem
Tire under inflated for weight = tire damage
There is no shortcut unless you just run at maximum inflation
Traveling with my best friend my wife!