Mr. Bailey
March 27, 1999 - November 3, 2006
We had our hearts broken by a disease we had never heard of prior to Bailey's first symptoms on November 1st. Immune mediated hemolytic anemia (IMHA) can strike without any warning and is often fatal. One day we had a happy normal dog, the next he was fighting for his life. No one knows for sure what causes the white cells to suddenly destroy the red; only guesses and speculations, none of which fit Bailey's profile. We've spoken to 3 vets, and they all believe it's tied to a weak gene in the immune system that goes wacky.
I want to think things happen for a reason or purpose b/c there are too many factors in us adopting Bailey to chalk up to mere happenstance.
On March 27, 1999 we decided it was time to let our our elderly schnauzer Kirby cross the Rainbow Bridge. His kidneys were failing and he was having heart congestion. Although he had lived a long life of 15 years it still broke our hearts to let him go. I was beside myself since Kirby was "mommy's boy", cried daily and wondered if the heartbreak would ever go away.
We finally decided to open our hearts again, and began our search for a well bred puppy, which is difficult to find in our area. My husband contacted a breeder in NJ, who referred him to a man in AR. This man didn't have any puppies available but had heard of a litter in OK. Mike called the lady in OK and learned these pups were born on the same day we lost Kirby. The puppies wouldn't be ready for homes for another 2 months. We had said from the get go we wanted another salt/pepper male puppy, but when the lady emailed us pictures a few weeks later there was one pup who stood out from the rest. While the others all stood nicely for the photo this little black & silver pup was laying down eating the rug while looking directly at the camera. I wrote the lady back, saying I predict he's going to be a little imp. But looking back now, I saw his soul thru the gleam in his eyes, and feel in love.
We made the 300 mile trip to OK 2 weeks later, which was fun b/c we had never been there before. As we filled the paperwork out for our little salt/pepper pup Teddy, I noticed that little black/silver pup again. He would keep bumping Teddy over, wanting to play so badly. Teddy was very laid back and so opposite of that pup, like ying and yang.
Once home, I emailed the lady to let her know how Ted was doing those first few weeks and each time I would ask how that little black/silver was and if he found a home yet? Finally a month later I asked my DH if we could go back for him too. Mike reminded me of our son's upcoming wedding, and said "if the adoption fee was 1/2 the price I'd agree". The next day I rec'd an email from the breeder stating that the last of the pups were getting older, she only sold by referral and was wondering if we would be interested in adopting the black/silver at HALF the price she normally would charge. I couldn't wait to tell my husband, and wondered if he'd believe me when I told him! Needless to say, we made another 300 mile trip to pick up Bailey that following week end.
This time our youngest daughter Jackie went with us. All the way back to AR she petted Bailey while he sat next to her on the back seat, and said he would be her little man.
Over the last 7 years those pups became the center of our world. We took them on trips, took pictures of them in little costumes, and b/c our children were now adults, those two little guys became our "furkids". There were times when I felt like they were magic, and could take the edge off the worst day.
On October 29th Jackie was sent to Nashville for an employee training course. Before leaving, she hugged Bailey as she usually would do, and said "while I'm gone, take good care of my little man". She would return on Thursday evening.
On November 1st I noticed Bailey wasn't his usual perky self. Suspecting some minor problem we made a vet appt. for the afternoon. Shortly before that appt. I was outside with the dogs when I noticed Bailey's urine looked dark. This was when I panicked b/c I knew whatever was wrong was not minor. Our vet ran some tests and mentioned IMHA being a possibility. Once home I looked up this disorder, and don't ask me why but I told my husband that night I had a feeling we'd lose Bailey. The next day we gave Bailey the meds, but his health declined. We called our vet who then admitted Bailey into the clinic for the night. Jackie arrived later that evening and our vet said he'd meet her at the clinic so she could visit with Bailey.
The next morning we heard Bailey's red count dipped a little lower. Our vet called 2 specialists in our area, both thought a transfusion would make matters worse. Our vet then called OSU, and they said to bring him there for a transfusion. The lady who bred these pups is also a vet at this clinic, and although out of town that day, she helped set things up for our arrival. Mike, Jackie (who had the day off of work), and I began the 300 miles drive to Stillwater OK, a town we hadn't been to since adopting Bailey 7 years before. Bailey did fairly well until halfway to the clinic, then we began to see him go downhill from that point on.
When we were about 15 miles from the clinic he stood up, took two steps and laid next to Jackie in the back seat. She petted him and talked to him softly; he began to shiver slightly, turned his head to look into her face, took his last breath and was gone. The clinic confirmed what we had feared, that Bailey had died. The four hour ride back home was very long and sad.
When I think back over everything, it just is too ironic to say write off as a fluke. We weren't suppose to get two dogs, only one; but there was something in Bailey's eyes that won my heart. The "half price" email from the breeder the day after my husband said the very same thing. Jackie being with us for both trips; when we got Bailey and when we lost him. Lastly, Bailey was born in Stillwater, some 300 miles from our home and a place we hadn't been to since, only to die there.
Maybe someday we'll learn the answers to all this?
God bless you Mr. Bailey, we love and miss you very much!
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"the Schnauzer Hauser"
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