Good advice on the first reply.
Your battery is about 4 years old. If you have been camping with shore-power for your last trip or two, a good battery should have held full charge between trips if left plugged in at home, or if placed on "disconnect".
Checking while plugged in with a good battery (reading voltage across the battery-terminals with a multi-meter) should be holding 13.2 volts (full charge) or 13.6 volts (slight discharge) and needing some charging.
If your voltage reading is less 12.6 volts after 24 hours (as suggested in 1st reply) I would let it sit another 24 hours (unplugged) and check reading again. If it is lower than last reading, your battery is no longer capable of charging anywhere near new capacity due to sulfation and age.
The awning motor can have heavy draw causing a bad battery to not be able to retract it. Turning on one 12v light should not cause a 0.1 volt drop. The battery is essentially dead.
Mark & Jan "Old age & treachery win over youth & enthusiasm"
2003 Fleetwood Jamboree 29