Must be quite a draw on the genny to do that. Is the starter frozen? Try starting the rig so that the engine is runnning. Turn off all electric items including A/C and fridge Can you start the genny or does it still pop the disconnect. If it pops the disconnect then either the disconnect defective or the starter or solenoid has grounded out causing a dead short.
troubleshooting guide at
http://www.flightsystems.com/pdf/onan-rv-troubleshooing-guide.pdf
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