OregonMan wrote:
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Are these concerns unfounded? Are waste and water tanks on newer travel trailers designed well enough where it truly keeps all of the bacteria and bad stuff sealed off from the rest of the trailer?..
There is nothing "different" with RV waste water systems than your home.
In your home, you have black and grey water, toilets as black and sinks, shower/tub is grey and they all combine into one drain..
Home toilet uses a water filled trap to stop fumes and odors.
RV toilet uses a valve at the bottom of the bowl to perform the same duty as a water filled trap.
Home sinks, tub, shower have a water filled trap to stop fumes and odors..
RV sinks, tub, shower ALSO has water filled traps.
Germs, bacteria, odors in RVs are sealed from your living quarters.
RVs unlike your home temporarily stores the waste water in tanks under the floor of your RV until you can find a dump station to offload.
The only time you may run into an issue is if you were to overfill the grey or black water tanks, then you have a "backup" of that water into the lowest point of your RV fixtures.. Pretty much the same as what happens in your home if your main drain line clogs.
If you simply make sure you dump the tanks on a regular basis you will not run into the overflow issue.
So, yes, your fears are unfounded.
As far as dealing with dumping and cleaning tanks goes, it is up to you how difficult or how easy you wish to make the process.
Some folks go through a lot of cleaning and sanitizing steps, some may be needed, some may not.
For grey and black tanks you don't need to sanitize. Black tanks, you do need to add enough water to help breakup any solids before dumping.
Grey tank since in theory should not have solids shouldn't need water added for dumping.
Dump black tank first, close black tank valve when flow stops, then open grey valve. The grey water will flush out much of the black tanks contents from your sewer line.
Now you can continue to camp.
If you want to freshen the black tank some, add clean water and some dish washing detergent like Dawn to the black tank, partly fill the black tank with clean water, then dump the black tank. That reduces the odors you will get for a short time when flushing the toilet between dumps. I do that when done with camping for the season.
For freshwater tank, to sanitize you can add chlorine bleach to the tank, fill tank and let sit for a period of time, then dump the tank (should have a drain valve on the bottom of the tank).
HERE is a good "primer" on sanitizing your freshwater system.