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โSep-04-2016 01:56 PM
MargaretB wrote:toedtoes wrote:
When I had my trailer, the one thing that really made it easier for me (camping solo) was the mirror on the magnetic stick - I was able to stick it right behind the hitch on the trailer and could back up quickly and easily by viewing the hitch and ball in the mirror as I backed up.
On my clipper, the black tank valve was way under the chassis - I had to practically lay down on the ground to reach it. So I had it moved forward to the edge (like the grey already was). Now, I barely have to bend to reach it.
How I store my plastic leveling blocks has changed as well. I used to keep them in the outside storage compartments. That meant when I arrived somewhere, I had to get out of the vehicle, open the compartment, bend over to get out the blocks fighting with other supplies usually, close the compartment, lay out the blocks, get back in the vehicle... Now, I keep them under the cab seats - I get out of the vehicle, grab the blocks, lay them out, get back in the vehicle. Much easier with less bending (only have to bend to lay them out and pick them up).
There are some things that can be done to minimize physical limitations. But if the mental limitations are there (as in "I don't like doing it anymore"), then there really isn't anything that's going to change it. And there is always a compromise going from one type of RV to another so that doesn't always solve the problem either (I got the clipper because I got tired of hitching - but now I have another engine to deal with).
For some in Margaret's situation, going to a class B might be a solution - no hitching, no toad necessary, and a vehicle that is really no different than your daily driver in regards to getting repair work (rather than a large class A that needs a special tow truck and not every shop can fix). But, if the person is a worrier by nature (as it appears Margaret's husband is), then the best thing may be to leave RVing behind and find another way of travel that better suits - again, physical limitations can often be worked around; mental limitations are much more difficult.
Your system sounds so easy! We get out, go into the trailer for the leveler, check the interior levels, get the blocks out of the hatch, set them up, drive up on them, recheck the level... We check the interior level because of the fridge. The hitch level isn't as precise.
I love Class Bs but they are prohibitively expensive, even used. We've found that we can get a lot more for our money with an A or a trailer.
And you are entirely right about the mental aspects. I listened as he grumbled and yelled about not being cut out for this and feeling incompetent and all the rest of the swearing that accompanied routine tasks, and suggested that if he was so upset every time, we should think about selling it. He nearly kissed my feet. And a huge weight immediately lifted for him and he actually enjoyed the rest of our trip. So in addition to the constant reminder of physical aging, the mental and emotional component is very powerful. That's why although I truly do appreciate everyone's suggestions on ways to make it physically easier, I appear to be playing "Yes, but..." We've done what we can do to make it easier and it's still a schreck for him. So it's time...
โSep-04-2016 01:50 PM
โSep-04-2016 01:44 PM
toedtoes wrote:
When I had my trailer, the one thing that really made it easier for me (camping solo) was the mirror on the magnetic stick - I was able to stick it right behind the hitch on the trailer and could back up quickly and easily by viewing the hitch and ball in the mirror as I backed up.
On my clipper, the black tank valve was way under the chassis - I had to practically lay down on the ground to reach it. So I had it moved forward to the edge (like the grey already was). Now, I barely have to bend to reach it.
How I store my plastic leveling blocks has changed as well. I used to keep them in the outside storage compartments. That meant when I arrived somewhere, I had to get out of the vehicle, open the compartment, bend over to get out the blocks fighting with other supplies usually, close the compartment, lay out the blocks, get back in the vehicle... Now, I keep them under the cab seats - I get out of the vehicle, grab the blocks, lay them out, get back in the vehicle. Much easier with less bending (only have to bend to lay them out and pick them up).
There are some things that can be done to minimize physical limitations. But if the mental limitations are there (as in "I don't like doing it anymore"), then there really isn't anything that's going to change it. And there is always a compromise going from one type of RV to another so that doesn't always solve the problem either (I got the clipper because I got tired of hitching - but now I have another engine to deal with).
For some in Margaret's situation, going to a class B might be a solution - no hitching, no toad necessary, and a vehicle that is really no different than your daily driver in regards to getting repair work (rather than a large class A that needs a special tow truck and not every shop can fix). But, if the person is a worrier by nature (as it appears Margaret's husband is), then the best thing may be to leave RVing behind and find another way of travel that better suits - again, physical limitations can often be worked around; mental limitations are much more difficult.
โSep-04-2016 01:35 PM
MargaretB wrote:
Yes, it could be. But it's still necessary to get down under the bumper to attach it. The issue is partly with his arms, so reaching without lying under it is not possible.
โSep-04-2016 01:31 PM
Gdetrailer wrote:darsben1 wrote:Gdetrailer wrote:MargaretB wrote:
...I posted another statement about selling the trailer, which someone saw fit to report without telling me why. Shortly thereafter, it was removed, again without a word to me - it just disappeared. Those kinds of treatment aren't conducive to encouraging people to post here. So I'm posting this reply because TomG2 was kind enough to encourage me to do so. I hope our experiences, both with the trailer and here, are helpful to others.
MargaretB, Don't remember who mentioned reporting your post.. Sadly, I think if you had rewritten it a bit differently leaving out some of the selling details it would not have been removed.
You had stated some very good reasons as to why you were moving on and that to me said all that was needed to be said. The other stuff looked a lot like a sales ad which is not allowed per the TOS of the forum..
I would have hoped that the Mods would have at least sent you a PM to explain but I understand they are busy keeping the forum tidy, sometimes they may not be able to send PMs to all that have bent the rules.. They get no pay and it is a thankless job..
Sad to see a fellow RVr call it quits, but everyone here some day must face the harsh reality that camping is not physically or mentally easy anymore.
While one chapter of your life has come to a close, another chapter is ready to be written.. Go and find another adventure that you and your better half can enjoy together!
I reported it.
Seven years a member and never read the rules there is no excuse for that.
Sometimes when one is in a position of "distress" one might not fully "remember" all the rules..
A PM to the OP suggesting to edit and remove a few things, explaining the rules might have been a nice gesture ๐
โSep-04-2016 01:25 PM
darsben1 wrote:Gdetrailer wrote:MargaretB wrote:
...I posted another statement about selling the trailer, which someone saw fit to report without telling me why. Shortly thereafter, it was removed, again without a word to me - it just disappeared. Those kinds of treatment aren't conducive to encouraging people to post here. So I'm posting this reply because TomG2 was kind enough to encourage me to do so. I hope our experiences, both with the trailer and here, are helpful to others.
MargaretB, Don't remember who mentioned reporting your post.. Sadly, I think if you had rewritten it a bit differently leaving out some of the selling details it would not have been removed.
You had stated some very good reasons as to why you were moving on and that to me said all that was needed to be said. The other stuff looked a lot like a sales ad which is not allowed per the TOS of the forum..
I would have hoped that the Mods would have at least sent you a PM to explain but I understand they are busy keeping the forum tidy, sometimes they may not be able to send PMs to all that have bent the rules.. They get no pay and it is a thankless job..
Sad to see a fellow RVr call it quits, but everyone here some day must face the harsh reality that camping is not physically or mentally easy anymore.
While one chapter of your life has come to a close, another chapter is ready to be written.. Go and find another adventure that you and your better half can enjoy together!
I reported it.
Seven years a member and never read the rules there is no excuse for that.
โSep-04-2016 01:22 PM
TomG2 wrote:MargaretB wrote:
Thanks for all that information. We appreciate your goodwill. To respond -
Yes, it's the chain that goes between the trailer and truck. Because of where it attaches to the truck, it's necessary to get under the bumper. That's the main issue. Ours have carabiner-type closures. We thread the brake wire into the chain before attaching it.
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There are workarounds for just about everything. The end of the chain could be fitted with a large open ended hook to facilitate that part of the process, for instance.
โSep-04-2016 01:21 PM
darsben1 wrote:Gdetrailer wrote:MargaretB wrote:
...I posted another statement about selling the trailer, which someone saw fit to report without telling me why. Shortly thereafter, it was removed, again without a word to me - it just disappeared. Those kinds of treatment aren't conducive to encouraging people to post here. So I'm posting this reply because TomG2 was kind enough to encourage me to do so. I hope our experiences, both with the trailer and here, are helpful to others.
MargaretB, Don't remember who mentioned reporting your post.. Sadly, I think if you had rewritten it a bit differently leaving out some of the selling details it would not have been removed.
You had stated some very good reasons as to why you were moving on and that to me said all that was needed to be said. The other stuff looked a lot like a sales ad which is not allowed per the TOS of the forum..
I would have hoped that the Mods would have at least sent you a PM to explain but I understand they are busy keeping the forum tidy, sometimes they may not be able to send PMs to all that have bent the rules.. They get no pay and it is a thankless job..
Sad to see a fellow RVr call it quits, but everyone here some day must face the harsh reality that camping is not physically or mentally easy anymore.
While one chapter of your life has come to a close, another chapter is ready to be written.. Go and find another adventure that you and your better half can enjoy together!
I reported it.
Seven years a member and never read the rules there is no excuse for that.
โSep-04-2016 01:03 PM
TomG2 wrote:gbopp wrote:
Maybe djgarcia means safety is better than trying to 'convince' the insurance company you did something correctly. (even if you didn't) :B
Is that your suggestion for making a travel trailer easier and more fun for those who suffer with less physical ability?
GM will have to "convince" the insurance company since they are willing to put it in writing and back it up in such cases. They have a little more invested than us forum experts.
There are thousands of posts about WD hitches if that is an argument you want to follow.
โSep-04-2016 12:57 PM
โSep-04-2016 12:56 PM
Gdetrailer wrote:MargaretB wrote:
...I posted another statement about selling the trailer, which someone saw fit to report without telling me why. Shortly thereafter, it was removed, again without a word to me - it just disappeared. Those kinds of treatment aren't conducive to encouraging people to post here. So I'm posting this reply because TomG2 was kind enough to encourage me to do so. I hope our experiences, both with the trailer and here, are helpful to others.
MargaretB, Don't remember who mentioned reporting your post.. Sadly, I think if you had rewritten it a bit differently leaving out some of the selling details it would not have been removed.
You had stated some very good reasons as to why you were moving on and that to me said all that was needed to be said. The other stuff looked a lot like a sales ad which is not allowed per the TOS of the forum..
I would have hoped that the Mods would have at least sent you a PM to explain but I understand they are busy keeping the forum tidy, sometimes they may not be able to send PMs to all that have bent the rules.. They get no pay and it is a thankless job..
Sad to see a fellow RVr call it quits, but everyone here some day must face the harsh reality that camping is not physically or mentally easy anymore.
While one chapter of your life has come to a close, another chapter is ready to be written.. Go and find another adventure that you and your better half can enjoy together!