When we bought our Jayco 28RLS last year, I ordered a Reese HP trunion style hitch and set it up myself. It has cams integrated into the spring arms so I can add the sway control arms if I ever feel the need. I would recommend going with the Equalizer for a first timer. Wind and passing trucks can be pretty unnerving to a new tower. If the noise of the Equalizer is bothersome, a drop of oil will quiet it down and only slightly reduce its effectiveness. We've been towing something or another for almost 40 years. Never reduce tongue weight to accommodate a light tow vehicle. The results are not pretty.