I've made this trip a couple of times and have a couple of suggestions
1. The first few miles of I-84 in PA had lots of bridge construction. To avoid this, use alternate routes to connect to I-80. You can take I-684 to the Tappan Zee, then I-287 to I-78 or I-80. Another good alternate is US209 down through the Delaware Water Gap as suggested by Lynnmor. Very scenic ride. This also bypasses I-81 from Scranton to Harrisburg which last year was a miserable road.
2. Your route shows I-495 to the Mass Pike. The are a couple of routes to get to I-84 that are easier. I prefer I-95 to Old Lyme CT just across the CT river. Then I take CT route 9 to Middletown and use CT66 to hook up to I-691 to I-84. This is a bit longer distance wise, but a much more enjoyable ride. It gets you off I-95 before the 2 lane part in CT that everyone hates. And it usually saves time. The worst of the I-84 traffic is in Hartford and west.
It's a long ride. I suggest stopping overnight along the way. We've stopped at Pocono KOA (near the junction of US209 and I-80) and Sylvan Lake Beach campground, exit 15 off I-84 in New York.
I live about 2 miles from Bayview.