Francesca,
Careful there: Why do you think I take care of the DW and she takes care of me, the DH?
After you answer those two questions to your satisfaction, then consider answers to these two questions: How do I take care of the DW and how does she take care of me?
Let me give you my answer to the above two questons: I take care of her by making sure she and our beloved pet have a comfortable and problem-free home in the RV out in the middle of nowhere so she can pursue her passion to the fullest, worry free - rockhounding. She takes care of me by making sure we have all kinds of medications, healthy meals, and interesting reading along for boondocking out in the middle of nowhere in the RV.
I post in these forums primarily about how I take care of/provide for her and our pet in the RV. She does not post in these forums because she has other (even better?) things to do, whether at home or when camping.
HOWEVER, this whole forum is all in fun ... so join in and have some, if you wish. :)