Of course, we are born and raised in the South, where we were were made very aware of courtesy to others, the lack of courtesy being emphasized by a firm smack to the side of the head. I have no problem using the flush at a dump station, or taking all the time we need, UNLESS there are others in line and waiting for me to finish. In that case, we try to finish and get out of the way as quickly as we can. I can always do a good flush later. We do realize, and see quite often, that many of our ways are strange, and that others do not see things as we do To each his or her own. .