I have the Anderson hitch and have found that it requires raising the nose of the 5vr much higher than the regular type hitches. I think this contributed to me needing to replace the motor on the land...
I use the Andersen Hitch almost exclusively because it is so easy to take out of the truck bed by myself with just a 15/16" socket and torque wrench. It attaches to my removable gooseneck ball.
The B&W works very well also. But I cannot take it out of the truck bed by myself. It is very heavy. It connects very securely to my RAM puck system.