1st time buyer wanting to do it right the first time

Just a couple recommendations:

1) Do rent and try out the RV lifestyle. You can rent some Newmar and Entegra, and American Eagle, and Allegro Bus models from Allstar Coaches

Maybe not the exact model, but good enough that you can get an idea of the different manufacturers.

2) Do try the RV lifestyle on a shorter term basis before sinking that much money into a coach. These things depreciate in value faster than a luxury car.

You are both going to cut your wardrobe down to about two suitcases worth. The WHOLE wardrobe. Easier for guys than women.

Your cooking style will change. No more double ovens. Likely no oven except a microwave convection oven. And likely a two burner induction cooktop.

No full-time computer workstation, likely a laptop and a small printer/ multi-function if you want a copy capability.

No high speed internet many times. No way to stream videos, though that's less of an issue for folks out age than 30 somethings.

etc, etc, etc,