I believe I would find another beach to go to.
Last time my family & I were at VA Beach, once there & spending a couple days in a parking lot, I thought I must have lost my mind & we've never been back.
Theres plenty of other beach areas, would be more than glad to have you spend your money at their locations.
Had heard that a few years ago, VA Beach had been picked out to have a city street road course race event, for the Indycar series, but it never happened because those folks didnt want their driveways blocked. I can understand their feelings though, but sure lost the town a big income because of it.
Neil