I would like to know if there is a checklist for set up and break down for my rv. any help would be appreciated.
You should have spent 3 nights at the dealership , then you would have felt more comfortable. Don’t over-think it. You will be fine. Just remember to close your dump valves before you remove your sewer hose. More important, make sure you connect your sewer hose correctly before you open them.
You will make your own list as you go.
You do a walk-a-round the rv and campsite when you depart each time. You are not going to drive away with your awning and slideout deployed. If you ever do, it might be time to rethink driving an rv. :B