Wife does nothing, ever. helps us not get confused...lol.
8 minutes. unhook toad. backin motorhome (40' DP)
put out slides
mix favorite adult beverage (margarita on the rocks, Camerena tequila, agave nectar, fresh squeezed lime juice)
Dump air, manually level.
Exit coach with favorite adult beverage in hand. Hookup electricity, and if available, water and sewer.
On other side of coach, extend awning )if sunny) put out matts (if dusty), put out my comfy reclining chair, sit down with my margarita.
8 minutes, tops. Add one if I am hooking up the gas grille.
OP, I'd hafta say if it takes your hubby that long to setup, then he is making a choice. Hopefully that choice makes him happy, cause that's why we are here.