Anybody else have trouble packing for camping

I can make two trips to RV and be loaded, my wife however has at least 15 bags of stuff, a closet full of clothes that has to be different from what she took last time, 10 pairs of shoes, and several bags full of stuff for the dogs. If I didn't take her I could be on the road in an hour, otherwise it takes at least a week and a couple of 20 hour last days to get it all in and ready for three months out. I hate getting ready to go! Almost forgot, the last week also includes the dog grooming, dog shots and meds, hair cuts and pedicures for us and trip to bank for laundry quarters and road money. The last week is never ending. Did I say I hate getting ready to go!