Thanks everyone.
I think I am going to look around for some place to mount some aftermarket head lights or fog lights just behind the back axle and underneath the frame and on an outward 30 degree angle now that I have read all the posts.
It will light up the area I need to see
It shouldn't blind neighbors while I back up
It won't be visible while on the highway, legal or illegal, if no one sees it, then no reason to ever have that discussion.
Thanks again everyone. This is better than what I would have done without all the input.