I see the same questions, and of course the same answers, over and over again.
But from time to time I also learn something new.
That said: Some folks do something very stupid and the answer translates basically to "Throw Money At It, Lots OF Money" (Seek professional help). They do not want to do that, They were hoping to fix the problem for say 10 bucks, when they find it's going to be more like 10 C-notes (or in my case 10 Grand).
Oh well.. I'm not complaining, but .. Well I may shave several thousand off that 10 grand due to folks on assorted forums.