winnietrey wrote:
MY DW died 3 weeks ago, unexpected she was 66, not over weight, active, did not smoke or drink, probable heart attck
last 15 years, probably 25, MH 3K plus trips, four times to Europe, Long Vacations with grand daughter. took Amtrak to DC up to Boston flew home
I am sure with the time off work, and the travel cost was probably 250K
This is my message, had we not done any of that, I would be 250k richer but she would still be dead.
Take it for what it is worth, but you pay cash folks, wait to retire to do anything folks, works great until a black swan comes along. White swans you can plan for, not he black ones
I wish you all a long life and happy travels
so long
Ron
I am sorry for your loss.
Me typing those words will not make it any easier.
Don't be in a hurry to leave the forum, or to give up on your own life! Is that what your wife would have wanted ? You are in a lot of pain now and I can't make that easier. No one can. I wish that I could.
Just don't give up on your own life. There is a lot of pain in your post and I am worried about you.