I just not came back and saw all the replies, I appreciate all the help! Even the disagreements and difference of opinions have taught me things. The problem I am running into is budget, and then availability of anything in the 250/2500 used with decent miles for a decent price.
I have been looking hard at the F150 ecoboost. I am not a full time camper, we go around once a month for a long weekend and typically don't go far. I am just looking for something that won't be completely maxed out and will tow comfortably. Will the F150 get it done? My Ram gets it done, but struggles, as well as very poor gas mileage. I am reading that the F150 is much better on that as well.