stop labeling this kid. you have no idea. PIA kids are no different than PIA adults when we perceive them to be a PIA. be assertive and explain to them that you don't have time at the present to visit w/them. give a kid an explanation he can understand and you'll probably get the response you were wanting, which is them leaving. same way w/adults; just tell them you're busy and will visit later. if they insist on helping, I generally tell them politely that I have my own way of doing set up and anything different will mess my routine and me both up. they generally leave probably thinking that I am nut job for doing it my way, but hey...at least they leave. they're happy and I'm really happy!