At 40 years this summer I don't waste a lot of time trying to do the impossible. That is to make any woman happy. What makes them happy is hammering us about whatever:). Listen to the John Prine song on youtube titled "Other side of town".
Back to reality, we were going to do something special until both DDs got pregnant and my job sold out to a total jerk. The DD's are both due a week apart in June, and I bailed and got a new job closer to home. Benefits and time off start over of course, and DW will be blowing the budget on grand babies #2 and #3.