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D_E_Bishop
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Jul 10, 2014

Thinking ahead re: back problems---UPDATE---

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I have a great HMO but, a very cautious one that does a lot of very conservative procedures before sending a patient to a specialist . I have a problem with my back, it was explained to me by a Chiropractor and GP some years ago in this way; the disc between the L1 thru L5 vertebrae are dissolving and before the vertebrae fuse together, they are in what is called and unstable period. I am currently having problems just like when it was explained to me over 20 years ago and I have been to the Conservative Back Clinic. No one has ordered any x-rays and they really don't know what is happening.

Their solution is for me to do exercises to strengthen my core muscles. Good idea, I am taking Norco and it doesn't really mask the pain and they want me to twist and shout. Not happening.

A year ago I had 40 days of x-rays in that area and don't really want more but have resigned to having it done. My question centers around what if they find real severe damage and I have to have a spinal fusion operation done. I know we are all different but I like to drive about four to six hours in a day, 250 to 350 miles. I'm a little concerned. I love my Flexsteel captains seats and they usually help relieve any pain I have. It's just that this is really big time and I'm 74, overweight and somewhat out of shape due to three joint replacement in the last six years.

I've been looking at a replacement for our rig but this is causing second guessing. It's not so much the money, it's what if I can't drive my dream and have just bought something I really want, what if those thousands of dollars sit and rot like this one did while we were caregivers for my DMIL. What if the pain is still there?

The DW is sympathetic but says at least, "do what feels best, we'll be fine". The DDs say the same thing, the DGKs just want to know how long it will be before we can go camping again.

For the first time in my life, the questions are making ne nervous, the answers are just plain scaring the cr#p out of me. I've been in some tight places in my life and I've never been afraid before. Even when we had a very short life expediency if we were discovered, it was an adventure, this isn't. I've never had to have anyone help in anyway, sorry J. Lenon. Now I have to let guys and gals that are 50 or 60 years younger than I, open doors for me, help me out of a chair.

I just don't know how to accept this one.

Thanks for listening, I'm going to hobble in to the living room and kiss the DW. At least that never changes, she kisses back.

15 Replies

  • I have back problems. I am determined not to have anyone cut on me until I absolutely can't walk. My brother, who is 9 yr my junior had spinal fusion in his 30's. Two months later, he was back in the hospital for a second surgery. He has plates, screws and rods in his back. And is pretty much incapacitated ever since.

    Have a friend who is probably mid-70's, who just had a spinal fusion done by a neurosurgeon. She said they tell her to follow BLT -- DO NOT Bend, Lift, or Twist. They told her that ppl start feeling better and do things they shouldn't. Then the screws start backing out, and they have to go back in. She is probably 2 or 3 months post op right now - she was doing better, but was looking at a full year to maximum recovery. Then a week or so ago, her one leg went out on her, and she fell.

    The surgery is no picnic in itself. Each person has to determine what they can live with and talk to their dr about their specific condition and figure out what they want to do. There are no easy answers and no one size fits all.

    I don't personally know anyone who has had fusion surgery who is pain free. Basically they traded one pain for another.
  • I developed some back problems in the last few years. X-ray at the hospital for unrelated issue last year, was told I have a slipped disc, But Dr wasn't concerned, so I didn't do a follow-up.

    Can DW do any of the driving, especially in a newer RV?

    I would love to do some of the driving. But for some odd reason, DH gets carsick unless he drives. Even when we ride in our DD's van, he has to drive.

    I would be more comfortable driving a C or B, but we need the room of the 5er as fulltimers. Eventually, we'll get a Truck Camper to put on the F450. Then maybe I can coax him into letting me drive.
  • No one has ordered any x-rays and they really don't know what is happening.


    Sounds a little too conservative, for me.
  • Just my 2 cents. From personal experience, I would lose the weight and try low impact,(swimming) exercises to strengthen your muscles. That would be the least invasive way to go. I know it's easy to make excuses to NOT exercise and diet, but it can be done. You have to decide.
  • You need to go and talk to your Dr and have a very long conversation. Tell him/her exactly how you are feeling. Print of this post you have written and have him read it if it is easier. Explain in detail your fear and concerns. If needed ask him to refer you to a specialist and a councillor to get help with your concerns.
    I have degenerative disks in my back and at times the pain is unbearable. Our friend has the same condition but has had rods put in his back. He has a DP and is quite happy.
    It is hard for us to know what is in our future but we can't Iive a life of what ifs. Talk to your Dr and then buy the RV you want.