Thanks for all the responses. I will pass them on. I told Ann a computer is a must for her now and she should join the forum. She said that right now she has so much on her mind she would when she is settled.
I really hopes this works. Ann needs this trip. I think it is so she can have closure. Not that she is dismissing her late hubby but being able to find some peace in her heart and the ability to live. I think it will help both of them since they have had the same loss at the same time. They can relate to each other and I would think be able to respect those moments when they are still grieving and need their own space at the same time however, needing the support of each other.