pnichols wrote:
DiskDoctr wrote:
Conformity vs Freedom.
One is often coerced, the other carries responsibilities.
As another poster said, Big difference between US and Japan
I hold a different view on this: Maybe Japanese culture enjoys adult freedom ... while in the U.S. an increasing number intepret freedom as meaning they can behave like a spoiled brat. :h
Again, I think there is a difference between "deference" and "courtesy". In many Asian cultures, one is expected to DEFER to the elderly and to the male. That is different than being courteous to them. The former can, and often is, subjugation of the young and the female. However, I suspect this is more of a difference to the ones doing the deferring, rather than to the ones receiving the deference.