I have several ignition system/wiring pages scanned from my Haynes Manual. If you want me to send them to you, send me a Private Message with your eMail ID.
I also have diagrams for 1996 of the Starting and Charging systems, from one of the professional sources.
From what I see, what I remember, there are heavy cables into (from battery positive) and out of (to starter motor) that Starter Relay (fender mounted "solenoid"). AND a smaller wire that feeds into the ignition switch. Yellow in the diagram I looked at. Be sure it's on the Battery terminal of that Solenoid, NOT on the Starter terminal.
