"How can you tell if the AH counter is correct wrt to SOC?"
My system is made up of 20 prismatic 100ah cells, 4s5p= 500ah 12v. I have EMS/ CPU (BMS) system a little more robust than a dropin battery.
The Magnum has nothing to do with AH counting it's done through the EMS of the Elite GBS batteries.
The EMS system has a minimum recorded resolution of +/- 0.5A so any current below that level is not accounted for. The system could be setup for a finer resolution, but the shunt value would have to be reduced which reduces the systems maximum current capability.
The system will reset the capacity to 100% whenever the pack voltage reaches 3.49 to 3.52 V/cell on average.
No, you don't need to charge to 14.6v (maybe dropins so they can sync their capacity % depends on the bms). A charger that can be adjusted to your specific needs is best, not one size fits all.
I have my Magnum inverter/ charger programmed Bulk 14.1v, Absorb 14.2v (10 minute minimum, can't be turned off), Float 13.6v. The Magnum PT100 is linked in the Me-Arc to follow the settings of the IC.
"Li batts are just weird!"
That they might be but after living off them for 43 months now using 99% of the time charging with solar, using them at low SOC with heavy draw items, not worring if they're fully charged or not, with 500 + full cycles on them now.
A happy camper here.