Hi GordonThree,
The inlets don't fail often. But if the RV'er is not aware of arcing and connects the shore power end first then there will be a slow accumulation of damage. They can melt as well.
My concern is more about damage to the connecting cord. If it gets cut by the local lawn mower, then finding a replacement may not be as easy as walking into Walmart. Or if the RV'er gets distracted and drives off with the cord still connected.... (btw Mea Culpa).
On the other hand sticking with the RV "standard ends" makes it much easier to source a replacement.
I've had both male and female plugs fail when really they should not have. 15 amps on a 30 amp plug should not be an issue, but on one occasion a set of brand new male and female plugs burned on the Neutral.
GordonThree wrote:
How often do marine quality inlets fail? Partly I'm skeptical, partly nervous.