I will try to answer the questions.
Ram 1500 or F-150 towing an Airstream Flying Cloud 23FB with 6000 pound GVWR and 4806 pound dry weight with LP and batteries and 467 pound dry hitch weight with LP and batteries. Reese WDH/sway control.
RAM will have 5.7l V8 Hemi with 3.92 axle, F-150 will have 3.5l EcoBoost V6 with 3.55 axle. DW won't agree to diesel.
Family is just DW, me and a 40 pound dog.
Ford has several things RAM doesn't that I would like, but if priced too high, DW won't go for it. The Ford MSRP is 25 percent higher than the RAM MSRP. I am expecting an offer from Ford today, and will be going to Dodge Monday to get an offer.