I'm going to resurrect this old thread to see if the OP has made any headway since posting the topic.
Nissan's 2015 NVP SL owner's manual is interesting and without talking to a Nissan engineer, I'm not sure you can get a better answer than what's in the book. There are a few things that are clear:
1) I'm nearly positive the RAWR is not the limiting factor for the tongue weight spec in the manual... The van has a huge cargo capacity and while I haven't weighed ours travel-ready yet, I am sure there is more than 870 lbs available on the rear axle after my family of 7 is loaded. We will be pulling the entire fourth row of seats plus 1 from the third row (~300 lbs of seats that are all sitting behind the rear axle) since we only need 7 seats for the trip. The total cargo capacity for the van is ~2,800 lbs with all the seats in. Even with my family and what gear we wouldn't put in the TT, we're under 1,200 lbs cargo weight. Figure by removing seats and adding my family, the van still has 1,900 lbs of net cargo capacity---and I'm (nearly) sure at least half of that is available on the rear axle, if not more.
2) The cargo version of this van with no seats can tow 9500 w/ a 950 lb. tongue rating... From talking with Nissan, it has the same receiver as the passenger version... Which means the receiver isn't the component creating the 870lb limit... and so if its not the receiver and its not the RAWR what is it?
Here's another interesting thing to consider, from Nissan's owner's manual for this vehicle which can be found here:
http://www.nissancommercialvehicles.com/media/pdf/2015-Nissan-NV-Passenger-Van-OM.pdfFrom PAGE 9-22:
"Weight distribution hitch --- This type of hitch is also called a “load-leveling” or “equalizing” hitch. A set of bars attach to the ball mount and to the trailer to distribute the tongue weight (hitch weight) of your trailer. Many vehicles can’t carry the full tongue weight of a given trailer, and need some of the tongue weight transferred through the frame and pushing down on the front wheels. This gives stability to the tow vehicle.
A weight-distributing hitch system (Class IV) is recommended if you plan to tow trailers with a maximum weight over 5,000 lbs (2,268 kg). Check with the trailer and towing equipment manufacturers to determine if they recommend the use of a weight-distributing hitch system."The wording of this implies to me that Nissan *thinks* that a WD hitch effectively distributes the tongue weight in a manner that would allow for increased tongue weight over what would be allowed WITHOUT a WD system. This is contrary to what I have read here and in other threads - but we really need to get inside the heads of the folks at Nissan who put a tongue weight spec inside of the owner's manual without any obvious justification.